Becky Sampson
The Divorce Strategist for Women
After 21 hearings, 21 subpoenas, and 3½ years in the Hawaii Family Court system—facing five attorneys and representing myself for most of it—I won. Not just any win, but a fair and equitable outcome for both parties while keeping an open heart. Since then, I’ve been affectionately known as “Becky Brockovich.” Now, I help other women navigate the legal system with strength and clarity, so they too can stand up for what’s fair and walk away empowered for their future.
Becky's Solutions
Empowering Your Divorce Process
Community Support Group
DIVORCING STRONG
This is more than group coaching — it’s a safe, sacred space where you can show up exactly as you are and be met with understanding, compassion, and zero judgment.
Together, we process the hard stuff, celebrate the wins, and remind one another that we are not alone.
Through heartfelt connection, practical guidance, and the proven framework of the
S.T.R.O.N.G. Method™ , you’ll find steady support to help you stabilize, heal, and move through this season with greater strength and courage.
You don’t have to walk this road alone — come as you are and leave stronger.
"In the company of others who care,
even the heaviest burdens feel lighter."
1-on-1 Divorce Coaching
YOUR PERSONAL LIFELINE
Going through a divorce can feel isolating, overwhelming, and terrifying—and that’s exactly why I offer one-on-one support. I become your personal advocate, walking with you step by step through the chaos with compassion, strategy, and confidentiality. I know exactly how overwhelming this season can feel, and I offer a safe, judgment-free space where you can breathe, process, and build a plan.
Together, we’ll focus on keeping you strong—physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially—so you don’t just survive your divorce… you rise from it. This is your chance to feel seen, supported, and powerfully equipped for what’s next as you begin to rebuild your life going forward.
Guest on Podcasts
Becky "Brochovich"
After 21 subpoenas, 21 hearings, and 3½ years in Hawaii Family Court—facing five attorneys and representing herself for most of her case—Becky secured a fair, equitable outcome using nothing but strategy, resilience, and heart. Even her own lawyer was shocked:
“You got 20 out of 21 subpoenas —without being an attorney?”
Now living on the mainland and raising cows, that experience inspired her to launch Only Subpoenas—a nationwide done-for-you service designed to take the burden off family law attorneys. Only Subpoenas takes the tedious, technical subpoena work off your plate—so you can focus on higher-value casework. Best part? The cost of the service can be billed directly to your client, making it a win-win for your firm and the people you serve.
"If you don't know your RIGHTS,
you have NO RIGHTS!"
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Resources / Referrals
With Legal Connect, we believe that no one should have to navigate the legal system alone. Our Resources and Referrals hub is your trusted guide to finding the right support for your unique legal needs. Whether you're seeking experienced attorneys, mediation services, financial advisors, document preparation experts, or emotional support during tough transitions, we provide carefully curated connections to professionals who can help.
From family law and divorce to business contracts, estate planning, and beyond — we make it easy to access reliable, vetted resources you can trust. Think of us as your bridge to the legal help you need, exactly when you need it.
ONLY SUBPOENAS
As Founder of ONLY Subpoenas, I help you and your attorney
get the documents you need—efficiently and accurately.
Only Subpoenas specializes in taking the stress and complexity out of subpoena
preparation and management for family law and divorce attorneys.
We handle the tedious, technical work so you can stay focused on serving your clients and winning your cases. With expert precision, confidentiality, and a personal commitment to excellence, we make sure no detail is overlooked and no time is wasted.
Testimonials
Jennifer Weaver, MPA
Becky is the most personable individual I’ve ever had the pleasure to know. She has remarkable communication skills in writing and public speaking. She is extremely organized and driven to help others. Becky is someone you can trust to get any job done asked of her. You simply can’t go wrong with Becky!
J'Lynn Allred
I highly recommend Becky Sampson. She has been a personal mentor and coach to me for the last 3 years. She walks her talk and holds you to a higher level of commitment. She understands what it takes to change your life. She is an example of one who has completely transformed her life.
Lynette Williamson
Becky is a brilliant leader and desires to help bring the best work out of others. It’s very evident. She asks permission to give coaching advice and is very clear on her intentions. Becky rocks!!
Danielle Cannon
Becky Sampson is a genuine speaker. She offers hope, optimism, and courage to those that need a boost or have suffered. She will leave you feeling uplifted, inspired, and ready to produce the results you want in your life. She is a dynamic trainer with amazing tools to offer. I wish we had a longer time with her.
Christie Jones
Becky is truly inspirational and deeply supportive. She has a unique way of helping you get clear on what you want and empowering you to actually go after it. Her guidance is both practical and heartfelt, which makes all the difference when you're going through something as overwhelming as divorce. Having Becky on your side isn’t just helpful — it’s invaluable. She believes in you, even when you’re struggling to believe in yourself.
Kathleen S McGowan
Becky Sampson is an amazing person in every regard. I have had the honor to know Becky for many years now, and have worked with her on different projects. Becky is passionate about helping other people! She is both knowledgeable and skilled in all aspects of her working with others, speaking, and mentoring.
Frequently Asked Questions
"Your questions are important — your future is even more. Here’s how working together will help you move forward with strength, clarity, and confidence."
ONLY SUBPOENAS
Why should I hire Only Subpoenas instead of managing my subpoenas on my own?
When you hire Only Subpoenas, you get an expert handling your subpoena process start to finish, ensuring accuracy, speed, and legal compliance. You save time, avoid costly mistakes, and have peace of mind knowing every detail is handled professionally, allowing you to focus fully on winning your case.
How does working with Only Subpoenas benefit my law practice?
We act as an extension of your team — streamlining your workload, increasing your efficiency, and giving you back valuable hours. With us managing the subpoena side, you’ll close cases faster, impress your clients with responsiveness, and grow your reputation for excellence.
What makes Only Subpoenas different from other legal support services?
We bring hands-on experience, deep knowledge of family law subpoena requirements, and a personalized, concierge-level service. You’re not just hiring a company — you’re gaining a trusted partner who truly cares about your success and protects your professional reputation every step of the way.
1-on-1 COACHING
What can I expect from working with Becky one-on-one during my divorce?
Personalized support tailored to your specific situation — not a cookie-cutter approach. You’ll leave each session with real clarity, empowered action steps, emotional grounding, and a renewed sense of personal strength, even when everything around you feels uncertain.
How is Becky’s coaching different from therapy or a friend’s advice?
My coaching focuses on forward movement and practical solutions, while providing the emotional support you crave during this tough time. You’ll get tools, strategies, and mindset shifts that accelerate your healing and decision-making, without getting stuck in the past.
What’s the biggest value of investing in coaching during divorce?
You dramatically shorten the time you stay stuck, overwhelmed, or lost. With the right guidance, you’ll protect your energy, make empowered choices, and rebuild your future — with confidence and grace — while others are still spinning in survival mode.
COMMUNITY SUPPORT GROUP
Why should I join The Gathering instead of just going through this alone?
Divorce can be incredibly isolating. In The Gathering, you’ll find real connection, emotional safety, and practical guidance. You’ll heal faster, feel stronger, and avoid the loneliness that keeps so many women stuck in fear and sadness.
What’s different about Becky's community versus other divorce groups?
This isn’t just a venting circle. It’s a sacred, solution-focused space built on the S.T.R.O.N.G. Method™ where you’re empowered to stabilize your emotions, rebuild your confidence, and take meaningful steps forward with the support of women who truly get it.
What are the real benefits I’ll experience from being part of The Gathering?
You’ll gain emotional stability, trusted sisterhood, practical tools for navigating your divorce, and the belief in yourself that might feel lost right now. You’ll walk out stronger, more grounded, and more certain of the powerful woman you are becoming.